Do you ever worry about anything? If so, why?
Worry can be a killer. Literally. It can, for example, bring on a heart attack. It can trigger depression. It can result in painful ulcers. It can make you feel suicidal. So why would you inflict all this on yourself?
Worry does, of course, have an underlying reason. It is intended to alert you to a problem that needs fixing. A future event that may have undesirable consequences unless you do something about it. Just as the reason for pain is to alert you to a physical problem that needs fixing.
Once the worry has done its job of alerting you, then as long as you do something about the potential problem there is no longer any need for the worry. Unfortunately, just as is the case with pain, it usually continues well after its purpose has vanished. Wouldn’t it be good if we could make the worry vanish just as easily?
Well actually we can!
Park the worry on the side for a minute. You should do this by thanking your subconscious for giving you this warning, telling it you are now taking action, and therefore the worry has done its job. You may feel a little silly at first, talking to yourself like this, but it is important to do this if you want to deal with the worry properly. If you thank your subconscious in this way it knows it can relax. Otherwise it will keep the worry there, turning up the volume more and more to attract your attention, until that worry reaches a disabling pitch.
Once you have parked the worry you must then sit down, or even lie down, and start to think through what this worrying situation is and what, if anything, you can do about it.
Now take the action or actions you have decided upon. This is a vital step. Ignoring it is just as bad as ignoring whatever a pain is trying to tell us. Also, if you try to park your worries and then do nothing about them your subconscious will soon get the message that your “thank you” speech is meaningless and it will not allow you to park future worries. If it is not possible to take action now, work out when you can do so, and then make sure you do. In this latter case, again thank your subconscious for the worry and tell it when you will be addressing it.
Sometimes this is all that is necessary. Recognize the issue, address it, and stop worrying. Wouldn’t it be nice if that was always the case? Alas, that is NOT always the case. In fact in most cases you will find that either there is nothing you can do about it, or if there is something you can do there is no certainty it will change things for the better. In all these cases there is another essential step you must take.
Imagine whatever it is that has worried you has now happened. Accept that this is not an ideal situation, that you would rather have avoided it, but now it has happened and you must move on. Dig a bit deeper – just how bad is this situation? Is it the worst thing that could possibly happen to you? Is it worse than any of the nasty situations you have read about or watched in the news? Somehow I don’t think it is! Recognise that is the case. Accept that life goes on.
Accepting the problem in this way is really important. There is always a bright side to everything in this life, even though it may be difficult to see it at the time. We all have our problems, but we can draw a line under them and move on. So imagine drawing that line and moving on.
Once you have done this, once you have done everything possible to avoid the problem and have also accepted the consequences if it occurs no matter what you do, it is time to use the Law of Attraction properly. You must now feel inwardly and deeply all the positive, good sensations of this issue NOT arising. Place yourself in the future at a time after whatever it is you were worrying about could have happened, and know that everything is ok and it didn’t happen after all. If you don’t do this, the work you have just undertaken will actually cause the Law of Attraction to start trying to bring you the problem, and you certainly don’t want that. It was necessary for you to do it so you could really put that problem in perspective, but now you must neutralize the effect.
For example, if you were worrying about failing an exam, know that you have now passed it, and start to feel the emotions you will feel when that actually happens. If you were worrying about your partner being hurt in an accident on the way home, know that he or she is now safe and sound with you at home. Notice the positive way I have phrased this. I haven’t said “you haven’t failed the exam”, but rather “you have passed the exam”. I haven’t said “your partner hasn’t been hurt in an accident”, but rather “your partner is at home with you, safe and sound”.
Those of you who regularly practice the Law of Attraction will recognise the technique I am proposing here and will have other “tweaks” they normally use. If you are such a person, use the Law of Attraction here in the way you normally do. But even if you have never used the Law of Attraction before, do what I have said and you will find it starts working for you.
Be assured this technique really does work. I have used it myself for many years and can confirm my own worries only last long enough to alert me to the potential problems, which I then address and my worries disappear. Try it – you will be amazed at just how effective this is!