As a researcher into the many different forms of personal
development I frequently come across books, coaching programmes etc which
promise to help their purchasers become wealthier. I find many of these long on promises but
short on results, and those go no further than my desk. But some are genuine. Recently I have come across several genuine such
systems based around the Law of Attraction, which I know works as long as it is
used properly, and I have been recommending some of these to members of my exclusive subscription list.
What I have found enlightening, though, is that many people
who rely on me to conduct this kind of research tell me they are not interested
in becoming wealthier. Some even seem to
object to the whole idea, as though it is morally abhorrent in some way. So I thought this would be a good time to
look at whether wanting to be wealthier really is, in some way, a bad thing.
Let me begin by telling you a story about two brothers. We will call them Luke and John. They were born into a family that, whilst not
outright poor, nevertheless had little spare money left once all the essential
bills were paid. Both brothers wanted
their lives to really mean something, to help others who were less
fortunate. But they also needed to earn
a living, and as with most of us this really took up most of their time. They began their working lives as junior
managers in a big international company.
Luke stayed there, and managed each month to put aside $500 for charity. This was as much as he could afford.
John, on the other hand, decided that this was not
enough. But he was on around the same
salary as Luke, so he couldn’t really afford more than this. What John decided to do instead was set up his own
business, giving him the chance of creating more wealth, which he could then
use for charitable purposes. Luke was
unhappy about his brother’s decision, saying he had sold his soul to the devil
by wanting to build his fortune, but John took no notice.
For the first few years John could only afford to donate to
charity a fraction of what his brother was donating. But then his business grew and grew, as John
was successfully practising Law of Attraction techniques. After only 5 years John owned a multi-million
dollar business. The business itself
helped a number of charities, and John personally donated $5,000 a month to
charity as well as living a much wealthier lifestyle than his brother Luke.
My question here is who was doing the greater good – Luke or
John? You may correctly answer we don’t
have enough information, as we don’t know what each brother was like in his day
to day life. How each treated the people
they met etc. But if we assume they both
retained their original loving personalities I think you will agree John must
be doing the greater good – as he has much greater resources to do so.
You see, wealth itself is certainly not evil. It all depends on what you do with that
wealth. If you are selfish and try to hold
on to it all and not use any of it to help others, then this is clearly not a
good thing. But someone who is like that
may be just as selfish whether they have $1 or $1,000,000 spare. What is wrong is not the money but the
attitude of the person who owns it. You could compare money with a natural force like electricity - it is neither good nor bad, but neutral. If you use it to light your house and read a good book which ends up making you a better person, then that is good. But if you use it to electrocute someone and kill them that is clearly bad.
If you see the acquisition of wealth as a means to an end,
and the end is good, then there is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to be
wealthier – obviously provided you use ethical means to acquire that wealth.
Some of my Christian readers may say that the Bible says
money is the root of all evil, but it does not say this at all. So many people misquote the passage from 1
Timothy 6:10. What St Paul actually said
in this passage was:
“For the love of money
is a root of all kinds of evil.”
The love of money, rather than the love of the good you will
be able to do if you acquire it in the right way. That is very true. If you love just the money itself you will
want to try and hold on to it and end up not using it for good – and that is
wrong. But it is certainly not wrong to
want to acquire money to have a better lifestyle if you are also going to use
some of your wealth to improve the lot of others.
So, is it wrong to want to be wealthier? My answer as a personal development
researcher is a resounding “No!” Go for
it! Use the Law of Attraction properly
to become wealthier, and then see what good uses you can make of that wealth as
you begin to acquire it!
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ReplyDeleteIts not wrong actually, it's what you use it for that matters.
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